In any relationship, sex is a key part that many believe deepen love and affection.
While it is impossible to explain all male behaviours, here are five sex secrets that may help every man and also help women understand their spouse.
Men fear they’ll let women down
According to a research article published by TNN, men desires to perform sexually. Suddenly, the pressure to perform is on, and he can’t help but feel like he has to please you.
Even though you may not be so bothered about his performance and you might forgive him for a few poor performances, he has a hard time forgiving himself.
Warning: If your man has a recurring problem of performance, he may start to blame you to protect his ego. Be prepared to handle this situation.
What to do: Don’t take it personally or, worse, insult him. And never laugh! Just pretend that it is no great deal for you.
Men need validation to get their groove on
Sex is a source of power from ages, and it gives proof that one is masculine. To a man, having sex means that he can move a woman, that he’s energetic, a provider and a lover.
Your guy wants to be a superhero, and he certainly wants you to see him in that light. When he satisfies you sexually, he feels like superman. If you’re enjoying yourself, let him know that.
Warning: No encouragement means no fun. Whether you are enjoying yourself or not, just be encouraging.
What to do: A good rule of thumb: Don’t fake it but don’t fight it. Just look happy and satisfied and that would make your man feel super.
Men don’t like waiting too long
Women should never hold out to have sex simply because of the so called rules of dating. He is more likely to commit if there is a sexual component to the relationship, and it is important for him to know that you find him sexually desirable.
Warning: If your guy is offended when you initiate sex, get rid of him.
What to do: We’re all sensual beings; we might as well be who we are. So don’t be afraid to make a move.
Men too are conscious about their bodies
Men may not worry about weight nearly as much as women do, but they do have their own image issues.
Warning: Most men are quite concerned about their general physical condition, height and baldness. In other words, they are hoping for mood lighting in the bedroom just as much as women are.
What to do: Help your man by telling him that you find him attractive and showing him affection.
Most men will not forgive a cheating girlfriend
Men who have been betrayed, especially in the bedroom, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women in the same situation.
Warning: Men want loyalty at all cost.
What you can do: Show your loyalty not only by remaining faithful when in a committed relationship, but also by supporting your man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary.
This allegiance will make your man more secure and will give him the motivation to let loose in the bedroom with you. Men want commitment just as much as women do; they just want it packaged differently.